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Should Having No Money Make You Ashamed?

Should Having No Money Make You Ashamed?

Think about it for a moment.

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Paulo A. José
Oct 31, 2023
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The other day I was talking to my mother about personal finances. Having someone to talk to when I’m having trouble with sensitive aspects of my life or to understand something that was once completely clear to me has been one of the best investments I’ve made so far.

Although I talk to my mother about all sorts of things — my traumas, relationships — there’s one topic we’ve never touched on until now: my finances.

Although conversations about money may not be the first thing that comes to mind when you talk to your partner, your parents, or a stranger, the fact is that money is not just about numbers or bank accounts but also about feelings.

Money is a totally emotional topic. No matter who you are, where you live, or how much money you have in your bank account, you’ve probably felt stress, anger, fear, or shame at the thought of money or your bills.

In fact, there is a proven link between mental health, money, and personal finances. People who owe other people are three times more likely to suffer from mental health problems.

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